Thank you for this!! Visioning can really help both of you, but it needs to be understood and developed so that it doesn't turn the INTJ into a grump, and given a voice so that it keeps you from overextending yourself, jumping into groups that are a poor fit, etc. However, this is not to spite you. Best of luck to you both. Follow Thought Catalog. I've never met another INTJ who didn't value the trait of self-improvement in a partner.
The INTJ is often impervious to their environment as they are deep and private and love getting their heads into complex problems.
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Subscribe to Blog via Email Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. I will definitely try to start using that in the future. If we can turn this into a win-win somehow--and the "somehow" brainstorming, analyzing, and solution-producing process tends to be an ENFJ strength--then that buys you time to build up bridges of understanding. However, this attitude is difficult to deal with over the long term. Naturally service-driven the ENFJ really does care and will want to apply this energy to tangible outputs, preferably that will help people. Let them know that it is more important for you that they are honest are direct and that the alternative is just not acceptable.